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Monday, March 16, 2015

Now You Get to Choose How You Die on Facebook

            The death of a user has always been tricky for Facebook and other social networks.  In theory, the Internet, and Facebook in particular, are the perfect venue for friends and family of the decedent to mourn the individual and share memories.  Unfortunately, and awkwardly, Facebook pages are not always in a condition where the decedent, or their loved ones, would want them to be preserved for the rest of time. 

            Until today, there was no way for a Facebook user to control, during lifetime, what happens to their Facebook account when they pass away.  Further, there was no way for a user to tell Facebook what they would want to happen to their account when they die.  A “close relative” could request the account be “memorialized,” which locks and forever freezes the account.  Or, the decedent’s close relative could petition for the account to be deactivated and taken down.  Another option was the users could simply give a loved one their password during their lifetime, handing over full control of their account, even during lifetime.  But, that is a violation of Facebook’s terms of service. 

            Today, Facebook announced a new setting that will give every Facebook user the option to have their account permanently deleted when they die.  Or, in the alternative, users can now designate a “legacy contact,” - a friend or family member to take control of certain aspects of their account after death.  Upon the user’s death, the legacy contact will be authorized to change the decedent’s profile picture and cover photo, write a special post that would be pinned to the decedent’s timeline, and accept friend requests from real-life friends and family of the decedent who were not connected during the individual’s lifetime.  Users will also have the option to allow their legacy contact to download an archive of the photos, posts and profile information of the decedent. 

The legacy contact will not, however, be able to post as the decedent or see the decedent’s messages.  Facebook considers this information private, even after a user has passed away.  Legacy contacts will also not have the power to edit or delete posts that the decedent shared in the past or posts others have shared on the decedent’s timeline.  So, designating a legacy contact will not save an individual’s Facebook memorial page from the embarrassing photos they may have posted over the years.  But, the option to change the cover photo and profile picture and pin a new post to the top of deceased person’s timeline will at least push unfortunate content further down the page where survivors can avoid seeing it. 

The ability for Facebook users to make their own choice as to whether they want their social media profiles to be immortal is a necessary change.  Hopefully we will see more tech companies following Facebook’s lead.  If you want to designate your legacy contact, here’s how you do it:

1.      Open your Facebook settings.  Choose Security and then Legacy Contact at the bottom of the page.
2.      After choosing your legacy contact, you have the option to send a message to that person.
3.      You may also chose to give your legacy contact permission to download an archive of the posts, photos and profile information you have shared on Facebook. 

4.      If you do not want a Facebook account after you have passed away, you can select the option to have your account permanently deleted at your death. 

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